Well, I personally would love to have a huge wedding, though not in a church or anything (I'm not Christian and when my boyfriend's sister got married in their church, that particular church got on my nerves seriously--it's beautiful, but because it's 'historic' they wouldn't let her flower girls drop petals, etc, very high strung). However, I'd rather have money to go on a honeymoon, so I'm 100% for skimping everywhere possible on paying for a wedding. Hotels cost so much, but the local beach is free for any size wedding as long as you don't rope off an area or try to exclude the general public. It's not the sort of thing I talk about all the time, though. I mean, I *think* about it a hell of a lot anymore, but I don't have very many girlfriends so there's no silly gossip or anything.

My friend in Chiba, however--her sister is getting married in January, and they're all flying to Guam for the ceremony. I do, in a very big way, envy that. Which, I guess is sort of the point of it.